The answer is: In secret

Matt 6:1-18 - Not like the Pharisees who made sure everyone knew what good works they were doing

In the Gospel of Matthew, particularly chapters 6:1-18, we engage with a powerful passage about the importance of intention behind our charitable acts, prayers, and fasting. Here, Jesus emphasizes practicing these good deeds in secrecy—a notion that challenges the cultural norms of public displays often seen with the Pharisees. This brings to mind an interesting element of Jewish tradition, where the left hand shouldn't know what the right hand is doing when it comes to giving (Matt 6:3). It's a way of highlighting humble service over self-promotion.

Consider also how this teaching transcends mere actions; it delves into the heart of one’s motivations. It echoes what the Old Testament prophet Micah articulated: "What does the Lord require of you but to do justice, love kindness, and walk humbly with your God?" (Micah 6:8). This connection shows us that the spirit of generosity and devotion isn’t about the show but about sincere communication with the Divine.

Plus, let’s not forget the significance of secrecy in fasting—not as a way to boast about one’s suffering, but to focus more profoundly on spiritual growth. Remember, Jesus practiced what He preached during His own fast in the wilderness—a remarkable three-decade revelation that shapes our spiritual journey. So embrace the way of private meaningful acts, as they often speak louder than any public display!