The answer is: Deny himself, take up his cross, and follow him

Matthew 16 vs 24

In Matthew 16:24, when Jesus invites followers to deny themselves, take up their cross, and follow him, he's laying down a profound principle about the commitment required for true discipleship. Imagine standing at the crossroads of comfort and sacrifice; Jesus is basically saying, "Choose the road less traveled."

To "deny oneself" doesn’t mean silencing our needs entirely. It’s about putting aside ego and putting love and service to others first. Think of it as peeling away layers of societal expectations to reveal a more genuine, selfless version of ourselves.

Now, the phrase "take up your cross" might sound like an ancient metaphor in today’s light. The cross was a symbol of ultimate sacrifice, and for many early followers, picking up one’s cross implied facing persecution or suffering in the name of justice, compassion, and truth. It's not just about bearing burdens; it’s about embracing a mission—not unlike a commitment to environmental stewardship, social justice, or community service that asks for personal investment and struggle.

Interestingly, in the Roman world, a condemned man would walk through the streets carrying his cross to his execution—clearly showing that discipleship can sometimes feel like walking against the tide. Yet there’s hope woven throughout fulfillment in purpose! In esteeming sacrifice over self-interest, one finds not loss, but gaining a richer life among the messiness of humanity—a beautiful echo of unity and love.