The answer is: Rufus

Romans 16:13 - Paul felt that Rufus' mother was like a mother to him also.

In Romans 16:13, the Apostle Paul writes a practical and heartwarming greeting to Rufus and makes a touching remark about his mother. Paul affectionately states that Rufus's mother “has been a mother to me, too.” This sheds light on the deep connections found within early Christian communities, where familial ties often extended beyond biological boundaries. Women who opened their homes and hearts to the community not only fostered warmth but also nurtured faith.

It’s interesting to note that Rufus might not have been just any believer. Mark's gospel mentions a Rufus (Mark 15:21) notoriously tied to the one who helped carry the cross of Jesus during His crucifixion. While it's tempting to connect these figures directly, the New Testament does not provide definitive links confirming any relation. But these connections and nuances show how community and relationships played a vital role in the early church, echoing how we value our chosen families today.

Additionally, considering that many notable women throughout the Bible, like Hannah, Mary, and Deborah, also took on powerful roles, Paul's reference to Rufus's mother emphasizes the pivotal roles women played, not just in raising children, but as spiritual influencers. Their legacy is an encouragement, showing that love, care, and seed-planting in faith continue to resonate through generations, building the church as a united family under divine love.